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Kindness really goes a long way. What may seem so small to you, is a big thing for another. Although to some people it is a lot harder than it looks. You can't change yourself instantly with a snap of a finger, but that's the point. Developing as an individual is a slow process and takes a lot of trial and error. Here are five ways to improve your effect on your peers, and become more thoughtful/kind in the process. You may find that these simple tasks can start growing big friendships.
1) Acknowledge Other People Something as simple as smiling or giving someone a small greeting can go a long way, especially directed at people who are relatively quiet, or tend to be ignored. That doesn't mean they are shy or are more ant-social than others, even though that may be the case, but it makes the person feel included and have someone to rely on in their time of need. 2) Be Inclusive Notice what people around you do, and how they react to certain situations. If you're having a group conversation and another friend comes in, not knowing what is going on, filling them in with the details is beneficial to that individual. If a peer is acting out of character, find out what level of seriousness they are suffering at before deciding if you should leave them alone or not. Try to be there for the other person as much as possible; deep down it can be immensely helpful to that individual. 3) Fill Them In With The Details No one likes not knowing what everyone else does. Feeling left out is a factor that can develop into a serious mental illness, such as depression or anxiety. You don't necessarily have to be gossiping, but it's better to discuss the main points during your conversation, while with someone else. Giving them key information that may aid them in the future, can make you appear as more memorable. 4) It's The Little Things Ever had that moment when someone brings up something you had said in the past, and it feels awesome that they remembered a small detail of you? Listening attentively and knowing your peer's main interests is beneficial for both parties in a relationship. An example of this is on someone's birthday, you decide to incorporate something the person enjoys with their present. This makes the gift more meaningful. Giving them advice, helping them study, are also small things you can do to positively impact another's life. 5) Introduce Them To What You Like This does tie in with inclusiveness. Show your peers what you enjoy, as it makes them feel closer to you. For example, if you find a video that you find funny, showing that person and sharing your experiences grows the bond between the two of you. A large factor is in making the other person feel special. I hope that you will try at least one of these and they'll help you in the future. Find more tips on how to improve yourself on 'Lifestyle': mimpixblog.weebly.com/blog/category/lifestyle
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